From the forthcoming book, Beyond the Weather:
5 Steps to Great Conversation.

Everyone talks, but relatively few engage in conversation. Fewer still create “Great Conversation.” But so many of us yearn for it.

"Great conversation" connects us with one another, with ourselves and with our humanity.  

In this polarized world, we are more networked and yet more isolated than ever. Conversation is the secret sauce that makes networks and relationships work. Conversation is the key to connection, a primal need, yet so much talk consists of stunted, unsatisfying “serial monologues.” To find satisfaction as individuals and to survive as a diverse, democratic society, we need to rediscover the art of Great Conversation. That is the subject of this web site, and of my forthcoming book.

I’m no stranger to the weary woes of stunted conversation. For years I hid behind self-built walls of isolation. Then I learned a few secrets. I shared these learnings and insights over a 22 year career, teaching, consulting, and coaching conversational skills on 4 continents, in 3 languages, to Fortune 500 companies, to leaders of the emerging democracies in Eastern Europe, to doctors and bakers and just plain folks, hungry to learn.

BEYOND THE WEATHER is the story—how anyone can increase satisfaction, feel the connection, and increase success through Great Conversation.

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In a small town on the west coast of Scotland, five-year-old Peter Gibb trades his soul to the devil in a futile attempt to win the approval of classmates, teachers, and parents. Follow the story of Peter's humorous but desperate struggle to find a way out of the dungeons of doubt. An insightful tale of lost and found, King of Doubt grips you with tension as it warms you with heart. Anyone who has ever struggled with self doubt -- and who among us hasn't? -- will see themselves in these pages. This moving story, one man's journey from doubt to wonder, will fill you with hope and promise. The story rivets your attention to the final word, while the beauty of the language still sings long after the reading.